Selden Barns

Patching, Nr. Worthing

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49 Reviews

Information For Selden Barns

Nestled in the South Downs National Park, an area of outstanding beauty. Family owned and run, we create a friendly, warm and exclusive atmosphere.

Selden Barns, at Old Selden Farm, is set within over 50 acres of the South Downs National Park; the idyllic rural retreat for your wedding day.

This family-run venue is exclusively yours to enjoy, and features beautiful, characterful barns, with Old Selden Farmhouse at the venues heart, and beautifully kept lawns and terrace overlooking open farmland and forests.

Selden Barns also benefits from nine guest bedrooms, accommodating up to 24 of your wedding guests, including the ‘The Gatehouse’ Newlywed Suite. Breakfast is cooked to order and served in the Farmhouse kitchen.

Wedding ceremonies are licensed for up to 100 guests in our stunning ceremony space; a converted barn adjoining the Farmhouse with original oak beams, fireplace and exposed brickwork. To add a little extra sparkle, fairy lights entwine the beams overhead whilst you make your wedding vows.

After your ceremony, enjoy pre-reception drinks and canapes on one of our lawns within the walled gardens, or terraces adjoining the Grand Barn; the location for your wedding breakfast and evening reception.

With capacity to seat up to 230 guests for your wedding breakfast and up to 250 for your evening reception, this versatile, flexible wedding space is second to none. With beautiful ivory pleated drapes, swags and tails, vintage chandeliers and a fairy light canopy, you and your guests will enjoy grandeur during your wedding day.

For your evening wedding reception, party the night away on our raised, chequered dancefloor with provision for a DJ or band and the bar located just a ‘boogie’ away! And for those warm, summer nights, step off the dancefloor and through the doors on to the splendid terrace and lawns to enjoy your favourite drink and look up at the stars.

Your venue hire package includes tables, chairs, fully stocked bar and staff, gift and cake tables, post box for cards, easel for your table plan, as well as ample parking. Also included in your hire will be a Wedding Coordinator to help you plan and oversee your special day, ensuring your wedding day runs perfectly.

As an established venue, we have an excellent reputation with some of the best local wedding suppliers, including florists, photographers, stylists and more. Please ask the team for more information.
Selden Barns really is the perfect wedding day venue of choice, with every base covered, from the peaceful idyllic setting creating the perfect back drop for your wedding photography to the benefit of on-site accommodation for guests.

With great road links to Worthing, Brighton, Arundel, Horsham and Chichester, book your personalised one-to-one viewing to fully realise your wedding day vison.
Follow us on Facebook and Instagram, and check out our website for more information; www.seldenbarns.co.uk Call us now to book your viewing; 07749 497055.

Selden Barns at a Glance

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Exclusive use, for up to 230 guests On-site Guest Bedrooms Beautiful photo opportunities in our lovely grounds and barns Our Grand Barn features an integrated raised dance floor License for Civil Ceremonies Our beautiful Ceremony Barn can seat up to 100 guests and outdoor ceremonies up to 250 guests. Pricing Category : AffordableBridal Suite : Honeymoon SuiteBarnWedding Contact : Nicki HutchbyNumber of People In Team : 9No of Weddings Hosted : Number of Weddings Hosted - More Than 50 View More
Location : In The CountrysideNearest Town : WorthingNearest Airport : GatwickNearest Motorway : A27Nearest Train Station : ArundelAffordableLuxuryConfetti PermittedFireworks PermittedIn House DancefloorCeremony LicenceAlcohol LicenseStaff ProvidedTables And Chairs ProvidedSound Systems Available Bridal Changing FacilitiesDisabled AccessExclusive UseIn House Wedding CoordinatorLandscaped GardensOutdoor SpaceGreat ViewsLovely GroundsSame-Sex View Less

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Always keep the budget in mind, don't just think about the venue cost, keep in mind the catering, photographer, decorations, and entertainment.

When looking for a venue keep space in mind, a venue that is too spread out will segregate guests. Having the bar, dance floor, and food tables in the same area will keep everyone together.

Who are your guests? Children and adults alike will need entertainment throughout the day, its good to plan out the day to keep your guests happy. (Happy kids means happy parents)

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Austin
Stunning venue

It’s difficult to know where to start writing this, as my new wife and I had the most amazing experience working with the team at Selden barns and the venue it’s self. We utilised Selden barns for our drinks reception, wedding breakfast, evening celebrations and accomodation. We had our ceremony at a local church, however, there are two beautiful spaces to have a ceremony at Selden barns.
Nicki and her team were beyond fantastic, from greeting us from our first visit, multiple meetings during the run up, coordinating with suppliers and creating and executing the perfect timeline. All of this making our wedding run smoothly on the day. They were faultless! We couldn’t have asked for anymore.
The venue itself was beautifully laid out. A large grass area for us to have an outdoor drinks reception, with lots of shade in case it’s too hot. When it was time for confetti and our wedding breakfast, Nicki and her team expertly handled guiding our guests to exactly where they needed to be.
For the breakfast we had 12 tables plus the top table, there was space for more if we needed. There is a large bar which was utilised by all, as it was a very hot day, our guests weren’t waiting for more than a few minutes before being served drinks. There is a wide selection of soft and alcoholic drinks.
The dedicated dance floor was a big hit with our evening guests, who spent the majority of their time busting some questionable moves.
There is an outside covered seating area with heaters, if needed, which is adjacent to the dance floor with lovely seats with cushions on.
I could go on and on about the superb service we received but I’ll stop there.
We cannot thank Nicki, Ben and the other staff enough for a fantastic day. We would highly recommend this venue to anyone!
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Nicole & Ben
Amazing!
Nicki and her team were absolutely amazing from the first viewing to the last minute of our wedding day. offering guidance through the whole process. From a very relaxed bride who had a very laid back attitude Nicki and her team still made sure we had everything we needed and more. the venue itself is beautiful and well spaced with plenty of room but also spaced perfectly for a smaller ceremony and guests. we loved every second of our weekend there. also if you're staying over night the breakfast was superb food was fresh including fruit with unlimited tea coffee and soft drinks. Definitely a venue to consider for your perfect day.
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Marie & Rob
October Wedding

I was in love with selden barns the moment I saw it. I loved the fact that everything was all in one area so guest would be able to spread out but still be together.
It was the most beautiful setting, and the staff are absolutely amazing. Nothing was to much for them to help you with.
They helped make our day so very special.
All of our guest were in awe of the setting and said how lovely the place was. I can't thank you enough for making our day so special.
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Mr and Mrs P
December Wedding

We just wanted to take a moment to express our heartfelt thanks for everything you did to make our wedding day so incredible. The venue looked absolutely stunning, and we received so many lovely compliments from our guests about what a beautiful location it was.

A special thank you to Saoirse, Nicki, and the team at breakfast the next morning, apologies, I can't remember the names of the two gentlemen (one gentleman was particularly funny and added a lovely touch to breakfast) you were all so accommodating, friendly and nothing was too much trouble. It's clear to see you all enjoy your work.

You all went above and beyond to make our day and the following morning so memorable, and we are so grateful for everything.

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Michelle & Dom
Perfect in every way…
Dom G. , Married on 27/12/2024
5.0


We can’t recommend Selden Barns enough. Nicki, Ben and their team delivered on every level. From the first visit to the big day itself we were swept away by the dedication, kindness and professionalism. Nicki’s eye for detail and ability to liaise with all the different suppliers was fantastic. They ran the actual day itself like clockwork and with smiles on their faces at all times. It so good to deal with people who clearly enjoy their job. Thank you to everyone at the stunning Selden Barns for making our big day that little bit more special.
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Leighton and Nicole
Perfect wedding
Seldon barns is the most perfect place for a wedding, the grounds are stunning with plenty of space,you have everything there in one place reception, accommodation, which makes it perfect,we got married in September and the weather was beautiful out in the country, the wedding manager and team made everything perfect for us,we can't thank them enough, absolutely stunning xxxx
Response from Selden Barns
Thank you for the lovely review. It was an absolute pleasure hosting your special day. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness together.The Team at Selden Barns x
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Becky & Rob
Perfect
Thsi venue is everything we wanted and were looking for. There nothing we would change and the staff are amazing nothing is to much to ask
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Sharn and Gareth
Selden barns
A beautiful quiet area, very rural and was everything that we are looking for, for our big day.
Response from Selden Barns
Thank you Sharn. We can't wait to host your wedding day.The Selden Barns team x
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Sara & Dean
Fabulous
Our amazing day went without a hitch. The venue is beautiful and we got some lovely photos. The staff were great and we got to meet some stunning horses
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Sarah and Max
Best venue
We had the most amazing day here! The service from the staff was amazing. And the package deal we got was great. We also booked all the rooms out which where beautiful especially the bridal suite. We had breakfast the morning of the wedding and after which was delicious and just what everyone needed. 5 out 5 stars
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Selden Farm, Selden Lane, Patching, Nr. Worthing, West Sussex, BN13 3UL

Selden Barns

  • Selden Farm
  • Selden Lane
  • Patching, Nr. Worthing
  • West Sussex
  • BN13 3UL
  • United Kingdom

Meet the Manager

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Nicki Hutchby

Congratulations and thank you for your interest in Selden Barns. We pride ourselves on our customer service and realise that each and every wedding is unique. If you would like to book a viewing or get in touch, we would love to answer any questions you may have. Please email us at [email protected] or call 07749 497055. Alternatively pop along and see us in our shepherds hut office.