Ok, so I have ranted about this sooooooooo many time over the last few months.

My fiancés younger sis has always been very difficult, and hey never get along. Parents have been split for 20 years,MADD has a partner, there mum twice divorced, alcoholic, and not a nice person.

Stilly of me last year I asked my fairness sister to be a bridesmaid as I thought it would be a nice gesture, she was always ok with me, and I put up with her behaviour I front of my fiancé and other family members etc.

So we started planning our wedding, all was ok. Then she got engaged in march just gone and they have set a date already for march 2014, even thou there skint and moved back to her dads, she hates her stepmum, and there refusing to pay rent for 2months.there currently in morocco as well, with "no money" so I was asked last to be bridesmaid after her asking 5other girls, and was told I'd have to buy my own dress which is £300 shoes hair etc. we said we couldn't afford it as we will still be paying off our wedding, and have other weddings coming up. She got very upset with me, and has barely spoke to me for a couple of months. She thinks everything revolves around her. They moved out of there rented house on the weekend just gone nd made out to there friends et family is horrible and a god her friends helped her cos they would if Beene tuck, but she never even asked anyone. She's just soooos rude. Now I'm really be grudging paying for everything for her, her bm dress flowers hair etc. in a way I wish she would say she doesn't want todo it now. I'm so hurt by how she has treated means I feel a idiot for asking her to be a bm. On Sunday just gone we organised a family get together for the family before our wedding and her and her bf stayed like 40 minutes. A
So this is pet, but it was my birthday yesterday ,and they never even left like a birthday card for me, I think being my sis in law o be and bridesmaid she could of done that. M fiancé is annoyed but he just says, my sisters a idiot what do you expect. But my god I'm so upset. Especially when I'm paying for all her stuff,why didn't her and her fiancé save up longer for there wedding. She's been complaining too saying no one is interested in there wedding planning, but that's because we have waited years to plan ours. Why does she ave to cause so much aggro and upset:(