Well for the last 3hours me and my MOH have been on fb going through the budget for the wedding and we have got some of it down other bits seem to eat it all up again. For the way it is going i will be having a nudist bridal party and all the grooms men in suits. I will be using the flowers to cover the areas.
It is stupid i have such a small budget but the bm and my moh never seem to like the dresses i pick for them to wear that are in my budget.
I will be doing my own hair and make up now too.
Oh this is so stupid i just want to to be married to martyn i dont care if they dont like there dresses i cant afford anything else. It is driving me mad. I might have to send the the link to ann and they can pick a dress from her.
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorlkparfitt
well if they dont like ne in ur budget can they not contribute 2wards them or pay 4 the outright, im a bm 4 my friend next nov and she has asked us 2 part pay, and im 2 asking her the same shes my moh, i will prob do my own hair and make-up! wots ur budget hun, if u dont mind me asking? xxx
CommentAuthorChrissy
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I don't know how old your bridesmaids are but I have two white 9yo bridesmaids dresses that are brand new if you would like them. I changed my mind about the colour and now they won't go. I can send you a pic. I don't want anything for them just want to help if I can? xxx
Afternote: Sorry, I misunderstood your post, my son was trapping on to me, I do apologise xx
JD is taken so I'll settle for being Mrs Marge :o)
CommentAuthorChrissy~MrsFaulds2b
It's your wedding and you make the choices. Your bm and moh should be more than happy to wear whatever you choose for them. I find them to be very selfish.
It's not stupid to have a small budget hun, you will have a fabulous wedding. The bay of e has helped me and so many other b2b's on here out loads do have a nosey through. You'll be amazed at the bargains you can find xx xx
CommentAuthorloubie100
You will have a fabulous wedding day regardless of your budget hun x also could i pinch the link to ann please xx
aww thank you so much chrissytv but my bms are 23 (when i get married) moh will be 30 (when i get married). I am paying for there dresses and they are paying for there shoes.
My whole budget for the wedding is 3.5k and so far for what we have defo prices on i have 1.5k to spend on ceremony reception (plus food) dj my dress bm dresses, cake invitations, rings. I just dont have enough and they are not making it any easier
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
No my budget isnt stupid the fact they are not wearing what i am asking them to wear it. I will get you the link for ann now babes
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorlkparfitt
u have a bigger budget than me hun mine is 2.5k, honestly hun tell them that if they dont like the dresses, go find ones that they both like and they pay the difference! xxx
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
they should b happy what ever u put them in xxx
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
Well they said that both the only dresses they like are 165 - 245 and my wedding dress isnt even that much that i have been looking at
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorChrissy
Bless ya. have you said that if they are willing to make up the difference they can have them? Have you thought about getting dresses from Ann who the other girls use? Might be the answer hun xx
JD is taken so I'll settle for being Mrs Marge :o)
CommentAuthorMrs Rebecca Hossfeld
Sorry but they can either like it or lump it, they should be thankful that they got an invite to be such an important part of yours & your H2B's big day, such childish behaviour.
Have you looked on the site that a few ladies are using to have their wedding dresses made for them, some very nice ones for far less than what the harpies you are trying to cater for right now.
It's your day, your way, nothing more nothing less, if they were your friends they'd be trying to help you not be total shites & demanding stuff from you.
Bit of a narky post I know but good gried, no way should they be demanding anything from you hu, stick to your guns & put that foot down!
x
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
I have just looked aat the bm dresses there is 3 dresses on her website i am looking at getting for me. I have not looked at her bm dresses before and i have just sent them the link and said pick a dress any dress and i will tell you if i like if not then we start again.
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorChrissy
At the end of the day it's YOUR wedding! Don't let them dictate. I know it's hard bcos you want everyone to be happy and they should wear whatever you decide really but I know that is not the reality. Good luck babe, let us know how you get on? Big hugs xxxxxx
JD is taken so I'll settle for being Mrs Marge :o)
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Tell them to grow, get into the real world and accept things cost money.
Now a extremely happy German housewife and now a Mother!!!!
Islay Jean born 24th June in Hannover.
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
Well i have emailed them with 5 different dresses I like in my budget and 5 I can afford half of and they pay the rest. If they dont pick one from them 10 then they wont be a bm or a moh
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
CommentAuthorMrs Rebecca Hossfeld
Good, I hope they come to their senses hun, not for their sake but for yours x
CommentAuthorSoon2beMrsHall
Same as. I refuse to have bm dresses that cost more then any of the wedding dresses i am looking at buyig that is just stupid
Cant wait to to marry Martyn
Wishes the wedding would come faster
XxX
