well as am sure most of you know me and carl have been married 4 and a half months, we had some very dodgy times just b4 the wedding but we got through them and finally made it down the isle....

finally two weeks ago our beautiful baby daughter arrived just over 9weeks premature....my family finally complete....or so you'd think.

you see whilst my angel has been battling away to get big and strong for her mummy and daddy her daddy was in a battle of his own..... the battle to keep his dirty little secret from me. yup u guessed it he cheated since weve been married, with some tramp who i WAS friends wit and lives just 1 street away on my estate.

i have had proof and confirmation from her and he has admitted it altho there stories differ somewhat she says it was 5 times he says once but regardless my new husband felt it necessary to marry me without fully commiting.

so yes ladies my marriage is over...... i am no longer a bride or a wife but i am a ukb addict and a mummy and il be around 4 a long time to come yet. xx x

:( hunni you & olivia deserve better :(

u'll find you prince charming one day hunni :) xxx be strong for olivia xx

Enormous hugs. I'm so sorry.

Stay positive x

Well my lovely here is one place you know you are safe and welcome and loved xxx

Really sorry to hear this I'm not sure how you've managed to keep so calm and not want to cut his manhood off

Oh my goodness, that is mind blowingly horrible! Hope you're coping okay.

remeber what happened the first time and then when you ended in hospital? you got through it you were so so strong. You stay positive you are a strong woman and you will get through this xxx

i'm sending hugs to u, u will come out of this a stronger person and have a gorgeous baby girl to see u through xxx

Sorry to hear this - stay strong for your little girl. He is a d**k who should have had the courage to not marry you in the first place. What a coward!

I am so sorry to hear that, I suppose the good thing to come of this is that you found out so early on in your marriage so can get out early on xxx

Oh hunni so sorry!!!

X x x

Oh sweetie i can't begin to imagine what you're going through, but all that matters now is you have your little princess and she is your world, he is not even worthy of your thoughts, when he realises what he has lost his life will be meaningless whilst all the while you and your princess will be happy forever together

Big hugs xoxo

so sorry to hear that Lisa :o( xx

so sorry to hear that :( *hugs* keep your chin up for Olivia, she needs you more than you need him. We're all here for you xx

After the ex cheated on me after a 12 year marriage I came out the other side a better stronger women because of it and I know you will do the same hunni!
Stay strong for that gorjus little girl of yours she is what matters now nothing else! When shes home and in your arms then think about dealing with the ratbag!
Till then we are all here if you want to talk about anything

only thing im gunna say it he will live to regret it for the rest of his living days!!!!!!

i hope your lil one is home with you soon, u need each other right now and she will be the one to bring u threw this a better stronger person. u deserve better and u will eventually meet someone that will treat u better xxx and your lil girl xxx

sending u massive hugs hun ... my son was born 2 months prem n had 2 b transfered 2 a bigger unit cos he got an infection ... hard enough going thru all the ups and downs with a premmie without all the extra from ur (ex) fella. xxx

Didn't want to read and run hun, but feel I can do nothing more than echo the sentiments of everyone else on here. <hugs>

so sorry to hear what happened to you and olivia.

hope the wee one is getting stronger and better each day. save every piece of energy you have for you both.

xx

Big loves for your wee baba :) My niece sophie was born at 31 weeks, 3lb in weight so so tiny, but you will be amazed at how much strength they have to fight on.. Sophies 16 months now and you would never know she had ever been so small.

Thinking of you both :)

thanks ladies so so much..............i am physically worn out with this i have no idea y or how this happened but i no i dont deserve or need it. x

Ohh noo hun im sooo sorry ! keep your chin up and stay strong for you and your little princess ! cant believe hes done it to you again your right you do not deserve it or need it with everything else going on !!

take care and hugs to you and olivia !!

xx

OMG!!!!
Honey What can I say that hasn't alredy been said.
You need to focus your attention on your beautiful baby and cut that looser out of your life.

A

Wow. Didn't see that one coming. I'm so sorry to hear this Lisa, but I have to say I think it's better to know than to carry on living a lie. Well done for being so strong and confronting it head on. I know it's a tough time with Olivia arriving unexpectedly so soon but you have found such strength even through the tiredness.
I can't say anything more than that, just take care and know that we're all here for you x x x