Hi Ladies long time no speak and the reason for that is very simple Ian and i have called off the wedding and he is no longer living with me,the short story is we had a massive argument just after new year about the kids well as any parent would he took his sons side and i took my daughters (but with hinds sight we both have said we should have walked away and let them get on with it) he ended up saying he could no longer live with the pressure of the situation and he was going back to his mothers, so I told him to f off and thew my ring off his head not a good move he picked it up put it in his pocket and said "I'll be back for my stuff later and he left.
That's the bad bit the goodish bit is after a week of talking about it we have decided that the best thing to do is take a major step back and call off the wedding and not live together and just take things a bit slow as his son has told him he never wants to see me again. So he's going to get a flat and we will just see each other when he hasn't got the kids.
I might pop up on here every now and again to see how you are all getting on, good luck to you all xx
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CommentAuthorJoanna
Sad to hear this but glad you're going to try again and take it slowly. Sounds very sensible and I wish you the best of luck. Hope you're okay
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CommentAuthorBarbaraU
Thanks Joanna it's took a while to sink in having to get use to him not being here but i'm getting there
CommentAuthorJoanna
Well remember you always have us at ukb if you need to talk
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
one day at a time sweetie
if you love someone let them go if they come back they will be yours forever if they dont return they were never really yours in the first place
Sad to hear this but at least it's not over, time is a healer x x
CommentAuthorMrsWright290912
Hi Barbara. Not nice news to read but at least you are on the path to getting things mended. xx
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CommentAuthorMrsA-J
lalas right!
I hope everything works out well for you hun! Its good that your still going to try!
Wish you all the best hun xx
CommentAuthorMrsC
I wish you well Barbara, its a difficult situation so I think taking it slowly and handling it one step at a time is for the best. Good luck x
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
sorry to hear this hun, at least its not over it just taken a step back, you need to get back into the swing of things with each other and take it slow. Sounds like you've made the right decision.
Wish you all the luck in the world xxxxx
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CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Sorry to hear the wedding is off but good that you are able to work things out. All the best.
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CommentAuthormillz090
Aw honey that sad news but sometimes you do need to take a step back... how old are the kids if you dont mind me asking?!
H2B and i split up a few years ago, we got so absorbed in life and everything going on and didnt realise we were ignoring each other and just split up and moved out. It was only when we both took a step back and reviewed the situation that we decided we needed the break. we then decided we loved each other and worth fighting for so reviewed all the issues and dealt with them together then started dating again which was lovely then he moved back in 4 months later. So what im saying is this isnt the end but need to step back, review and decide if its worth fighting for and work it out if you both want too. Good luck and thinking of you xxxx
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CommentAuthorSarah1865red
Sorry to hear you are going through a tricky patch, but believe you are doing the right thing by taking a step back. Take some time to reflect on everything and when you are both readu then talk openly through any issues. I agree with an above poster that maybe you need to find time for the two of you and maybe start dating again.
Best wishes
Sarah xxx
CommentAuthorprincesspixie
so sorry to hear this but it sounds like you're doing the right thing and at least you haven't given up on each other, hope everything works out for you both xxx
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CommentAuthorLulu1388
Ah no im sorry to hear its off, but definitely sounds like your both in the right frame of mind and not made any rash decisions. taking things slow and one step at the time seems like the right thing to do. Hope in time it all works out for you xx
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CommentAuthorGabyS
I'm sorry to hear this too... id be gutted if this was me... we always row about my little girl i had her with a previous partner and it is always a difficult situation... however it did make me laugh when i read you chucked the ring at him and told him to F off... i must of done this a thousand times lol... reminded me of myself lol x
CommentAuthornatalie2614
Sorry to hear this hun but sounds like you've made the right decision. Best of luck for the future xx
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CommentAuthorPoppy x
Sorry to hear this :( At least there has been some positive after the ugly, and hopefully you can both get to where you need to be again. Hoping it all works out for you, and as the others have said, we're all here if you need us x
CommentAuthormrsheavey2b
Sorry to hear u have had a rubbish start to this year but fingers x its starting to look up again good luck x
CommentAuthorShazk
oh huni this isn a good thing to hear but im glad u are just taking it stow sometimes thats the best thing to do xxx
Big hungs to u xxxx
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CommentAuthorHelenW
so sorry to hear the wedding is off but its great that you've both realised it would be good to just take a step back and work at the relationship.
Fingers crossed it all works out for you in the future xx
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CommentAuthor*KelBel*
Aww hope you're ok , at least u can work thru things hopefully :-)
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CommentAuthorLauraJo87
Sorry to hear this....hope things can get back on track for you xx
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CommentAuthorBarbaraU
Thanks Ladies I knew you would all be understanding, I'm fine now had a few days when i thought I'd lost every thing, but we both agree it's worth trying again. the kids are at a difficult age my daughter is 17 and his son is 15 and both very head strong.
thanks again for your support xx
CommentAuthorKayleyV
awww so sorry to hear that. hope you can work it out, me and my h2b have arguments about my 3yo son when i take his side but thats just what parents do. stay strong and take it a day at a time. xxx
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