We have two rooms booked for the night before the wedding at the venue, a suite for us and miss 2 year old and a room for our older girls. Our suite is lovely, four poster bed etc and we'd really like to stay there together the night before and h2b run off in the morning..... Im not supersticious but my family are horrified at this and insist we must be seperate..... what are your thoughts and what would you do?
CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
Its your choice. If you are going to both be in the hotel together, you may as well sleep in the same room!
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CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
its your choice but i am personally spending the night separate x
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CommentAuthorMrsMac
The castle only has 20 rooms and we're hosting a dinner for everyone on the night before so we will both be there and I sleep better with him,lol, pathetic as it sounds!
CommentAuthorWinterrose
Do whatever you feel is right for you. You know your relationship and if your not supersticious really there is no reason why you shouldn't. I on the other hand have to salute magpies, never walk under ladders or sit backwards on trains and avoid 3 drains like the plague... so I'll be sleeping on my own lol x
I personally want to spend the night away from h2b, I will get a much better sleep plus I am very superstitious. Its upto you though, do what makes you and H2B comfortable not everyone else xx
CommentAuthorLaticschick Holland
I personally also think you should spend the night away, my h2b is staying at home and im staying at my sisters. However every person's views and weddings are different.
CommentAuthorslybacon
I think it's a personal choice & if you'd like to spend the night before together then go for it!
We've decided to spend the night apart, but that's just what we want. You just have to do what you feel comfortable with! x x x
CommentAuthorKerrylou
It's definitely a personal choice - I'm yet to hear of anything bad happening to a couple who spent the night before the wedding together. If it's what you want then do it.
Not sure if I'll be spending the night before with Ross but that's down to practicality and not superstition xxx
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CommentAuthorhaylsmccrone
your choice totally, although i intend to spend it sperate to my h2b. he doesnt know it yet though...
CommentAuthorRoxy_Blade
My parents spent the night together. They also went to the church together and have been happily married for 20 years now. My dad even helped my mum pick her dress
CommentAuthor*Vixie*
roxy thats so sweet. were not spending the night together. h2b is staying home and ill be staying at mums. xx
CommentAuthorsabs
Id loive to spend the night before with H2B but we have decided to be seperate. x x x
CommentAuthorltw979
We're gonna be spending the night together unless we do a room swap with my best friend and her bloke cos we'll be in Vegas in a hotel. I think what we'll do is spend the night together and we're not planning on having the wedding till about 6ish at night so its a bit cooler so the day will be me preparing with my friends and H2B will prob spend the day in the bar, lol.
CommentAuthorangelan1986
lol that sounds perfect ltw979 haha. i want a vegas wedding but i also want my family there and doubt they could afford to get out there :o( x
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CommentAuthorKimi
Me and H2B will be at home together and I'll probably be dropped off at the hairdressers or dad's house. :)
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CommentAuthorChrissy~MrsFaulds2b
I'd love to spend the night before with h2b but we're having separate rooms. We've booked 2 rooms that have another room joined onto them so my CBM will be next to me and his BM will be next to him.
CommentAuthorSharyorks
it''s totally down to you! personally we are spending the night apart. x
CommentAuthorLola
We're going to spend the night together. We're both going to be like kids on the night before xmas and i couldnt imagine not sharing that feeling and of course the last night of being a miss.
CommentAuthorltw979
Vegas in H2B's dream. He has no family, both parents have died and he is an only child so seems the way to go with friends. My family are happy for that. mum is having kids when we go and then when we come home we are having a blessing and christening of 3 of the kids at the local church for family and friends and a party for all.
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
sounds lovely itw979 :0) xx
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CommentAuthorChrissy~MrsFaulds2b
Itw979 that so lovely xx xx
CommentAuthorTattieSoup
We're going to spend the night apart but possibly will be in the same building, haven't worked out the details yet. It's not really because I'm superstitious myself, but I think it's fun to observe the little wedding superstitions/traditions. I'm going to do the something old/new/borrowed/blue thing too!
CommentAuthorfelicity.h
im same as tattie. just because its nice to sometimes do the traditional thing, but other than that im not bothered plus paul will probably just annoy me as ill have too much to do.
