Once again I am after some advice.. looking at our wedding budget and taking into consideration that we are buying a house I ask just wondering how important you all think that getting a special wedding car is for travelling to the church? I am still debating whether to just go in a family members car or whether to get the real deal. Any advice or b2bs thinking the same?
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CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
naaaaaaah you don't have to have one, you could just get someone in your family with a nice car and put a ribbon on it
We weren't going to bother either but my in laws insisted and paid for one for us but if they didn't we would have just had an audi
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CommentAuthorNevlar
to be honest i only had one becuase the budget allowed.. otherwise im not really that fussed! as nice as they are and look ok on pics they arent the be all and end all! as long as you get there does it amtter how xxx
CommentAuthorChanelP
Yea that was what I thought I have just seen pictures of cars that I would love to go in but I don't think that it is top of the priority list! My dad has a nice car that the bridesmaids are going in with my mum just need to find one for me and dad now
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CommentAuthorbarbie86
We're not having one.
I'm getting ready at our reception venue, which is a 2 minute walk from the ceremony venue. If it rains, we'll just take a regular cab.
For me, it wasn't worth spending £300 just so I could have a picture taken in the car/getting out of the car. I'd also feel like a bit of an idiot getting in a fancy car to go 30 seconds round the corner lol.
We're not having any.. Just putting ribbon on a couple family cars, our venue is literally 2mins away from my house so would've been a waste of £300-£400 ! But even if it was ages away, I'd have only had one if we had spare money at the end, wouldn't have specifically saved for it.. xxx
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CommentAuthorStaceyP91
We're having one due to it being able to put it in the budget and only paying 430 for 3 cars :) also our venue is a 40min drive away.
But deep down I don't think it is a necessity. See whether there is any family members or friends with nice cars and put a ribbon on
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CommentAuthorNicoleee_x
we aren't having one, ceremony and meal are in the same venue and i will be arriving at the venue hours earlier than any guests to get ready so don't need one. i'm gona tie some ribbon to the bonnet of my car as i drive to my venue tho. I've only been to 3 weddings but i didn't see the bride arrive at any of them as they wanted us all inside the church before hand. Up to you hun xx
CommentAuthorNearlyMrsFountain
Not important at all!!! Save as much money as possible.. I'm sure something else will come out more expensive that budgeted!! Xx
CommentAuthorLegoWife
We didn't have one, if you're big on cars and want pictures with them then I imagine it's different but otherwise, as long as you can get to your venue why waste the money? lol :)
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CommentAuthorangel830609
my cousin just had a family car, we're looking at one but my partner wants horse and carraige, we'll have one if budget allows but im not too concerned xx
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CommentAuthorMrsThomson2B
I know what car I want and I will be spending money on it as all of the venues I have looked at are quite a distance from the house ( at least 15-20 minutes drive. If my venues was much further then I would probably just book a room at my venue. The truth is that the wedding industry tells you that it is proper for you to have a certain type of transport...that's fine for people who can afford it but if not then do what makes you happy. The car does not even have to be white if it is a friends. I seen a picture on facespace and it was a black car with ribbons and voil over the bonnetall pulled to the drivers side which looks so pretty. will try get it on my wall for you. Do what you want hun and never mind anyone elses opinion about a car xx
CommentAuthorMel D
We didn't have one (despite many protestations that we should) we asked my MOH's husband who has also been a friend for 15 years to drive us. We bought some ribbon and bows and they decorated their Golf for us ... it was perfect - and we are both petrol heads so it was quite a big thing for us not to have a fancy car xx
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CommentAuthorRachaelC80
Personally, I don't think it's an important part of the Wedding?? As long as you get there??!!! I'm getting my Dad to drive me to the ceremony and H2B's work colleague has kindly offered to pick us up from the ceremony and take us to our photo location in his rather posh convertible car!! And, our reception is just a 5 minute walk from there.
I would of felt really guilty spending £150 on a 10 mile journey??
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CommentAuthorChanelP
Thanks everyone I think that it doesn't make sense (people will probably laugh at this) to pay for a car for a ten minute drive when the money could be spent on a washing machine that will last a lot longer!
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CommentAuthorMrsThomson2B
You are right ChanelP you spend the money on what you need. I said the very same thing about an engagement party....could not justify it when we have a wedding to pay for. The cost covers all of my bridesmaids and flowergirls with some left over xx
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
No it's not important but I wanted to make a grand appearance and cos our venue has ceiling to floor windows, ppl will see me arrive so wanted one x
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CommentAuthorlouise5
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im having horse and carriage on the way to the church, then this car on the way to reception with hubby, so yes its very important to me xx
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CommentAuthorHelainaH
We've hired 2 cars, but that's because I need to get from the hotel with my bridesmaids and dad, to the venue/church 30 mins away. We're putting on a coach to get guests from hotels in Hereford to the venue so everyone can gave some drinks if they want, so there wasn't anyone to ask to take us.
Originally we looked into hiring a fancy private hire taxi (bmw type), but we quickly found out that even though Reading is full of them, Hereford isn't.
If you don't want to spend money on hiring a car, then don't. You won't want to be sitting in it thinking of how the money could have been better spent x
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
If you know someone with a nice car then why not just go in that to save money. We never had a car as I was already at the venue and hubby came over in his brother's car.
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CommentAuthorWhovianbride
Im not having a wedding car! im staying in the hotel then night before with my maids so that i know they are all there and on time for hair and makeup in the morning and then i don't have to worry about fitting into the car in my big dress or crinkleing it i just have to walk down stairs and by H2B will be staying at home and just taking the short drive over to the hotel!
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CommentAuthorKatherineR45
i'm not having one, I can't afford it, if money was no object I'd have one but I a few of our guests have nice-ish cars and have offered to take me so that's my plan!
CommentAuthorLauraJo87
We're not bothering - I'm staying at the venue the night before and h2b will be arriving with all his family before most of the guests so no one would see it anyway. To be honest it's just not much of a priority xx
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CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
Have you looked at taxi firms ChanelP? A lot of them have high class cars that they hire out to executives and we have got a merecedes E class from one that is going to be done out with bows and champagne and strawberries (and it doesn't have taxi written anywhere!) and a chauffer in suit and hat. They are picking my h2b and best man up and taking them to the church, then my bridesmaids and mum, and then coming back for me and my dad, then waiting at the church for the service and pictures and taking me and h2b to the reception (with any stop offs we would like for some more pictures) all for £200! So they don't have to cost the earth! xxx
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CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
And they charge less because they have constant income from the actual taxi side of the company, whereas 'wedding' cars charge more because they only get their income when they hire them out! xx
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CommentAuthorMrs Ashman2b
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If you don’t have to spend the money then don't, there is plenty else to use it for. It’s enough that you could upgrade your photographer from a good one to an amazing one. After all you will be looking at those pictures forever more so you want them to be perfect
At first I thought I could walk from the hotel to the ceremony but having walked the route at that time on a Saturday there was no way i would be able to battle my way through the city centre and shoppers so I was going to book a normal cab but h2b loved the car were having so much that although it was big on my list it was on his so we booked it. To make sure we get our money's worth we're going to have a drive out to the country and enjoy some champers together as Mr and Mrs then on to the reception.
CommentAuthorcarnally
I was very happy not to have a wedding car but dp was having none of it. There's no need for them at all and if hiring a car is going to put you under pressure financially, then don't bother with them. I'm sure someone with a nice car will be delighted to drive you.
So no, definitely not necessary.
CommentAuthorFinally Susan B
I don't think it's important unless you can easily afford it. There are a million other things I'd rather spend the money on - but do like the ribbons on a decent(ish) and large enough not to completely screw dress up
CommentAuthorleah
i wouldnt bother hun, were only having one because its someone on the street and we got it for 150 plus hes doing trips to take our bridesmaids but otherwise i wouldnt be bothered. Tbh weve been to three weddings in the past year and never actually seen the bride get out of the car. As long as you ve got some bubbles to drink and you get there it dosent matter how xx
CommentAuthorKellyP14
Hi ChanelP, this was probably the easiest decision for me to make :) It is definitely a personal choice; however I have never wanted wedding transportation - I couldn't think of anything worse then getting ready then having to try and cram my dress into a car - plus I have a thing about creases lol.
I'm staying with my mum and bridesmaids (sisters) at the venue the night before. That way I can have a leisurely, relaxed breakfast and keep an eye on the preparations in the morning. It actually works out a lot cheaper than hiring a car, and I get some real quality time with my family before the fun begins :)
CommentAuthorsarah
Not necessary but nice to have. In a wedding car there will be space for your dress and it will be clean. Is this worth a couple of hundred quid? I think the answer is entirely up to you.
CommentAuthorOWB
I wasn't going to have a car as I really wanted to walk from the hotel to the church - it's less than a mile away and the car won't be used again later in the day. Then I started to panic about it raining. I was talking about it to a lady at college one night as she lives across the road from the hotel, anyway she offered her husbands car to take me in. It's a shiny new Mercedes. Anyway, after checking that it was okay with him, it's been decided that he will pick me up and take me, and won't take a pay for doing so! (I'll send a thank you gift along anyway!).
h2b is driving in and parking the car at my work so that we can get home again the next day.
It's worth asking friends and relatives with a nice car to take you. Or as mentioned above, an executive taxi or even a black cab.
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CommentAuthorclive
We're having the real deal, but it really isn't the be-all and end-all. We talked about roping my dad in, but liz wanted the whole thing, so that was that, but if you can save a few (hundred) pounds, then you go for it!! All they will be looking at is you stepping out of the car in "that dress".
CommentAuthorTatty
I don't think it's important at all. My mum is paying for mine because she thinks I should ahve one but if she wasn't I would be getting a taxi since it's only 5 minutes down the road. x
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CommentAuthorZoeD28
I'm not too bothered but I know my dad would love a 'special' car for our journey from home to the church (approx 10 mins lol) so we're thinking of going to enterprise who hire prestige cars from certain places... figured a smart merc for the weekend would be a better hire than some vintage car for a few hours and we get the weekends use after the wedding! probably 1/5th of the price too :D
CommentAuthorAmyK
If its what you really want and can afford it, then its your choice. I personally feel that money could be better spent elsewhere... everyone is going to already be inside the venue by the time I arrive, so no-one will actually see it, and I don't much fancy the idea of a photo of me trying to not fall over myself as I get out of it! Hence, I'm getting a taxi. Besides, my venue is only 2.5 miles from my house. As long as you get there, thats all that matters, right!
CommentAuthorMrsMoran
If you don't mind being driven in a family member's car, then I'd say go for it if you'd rather save the money and use it for something else xxx
CommentAuthorChanelP
Th dank you seeing e for helping me to make my mind up :) I am glad the at I am no it as fine in thinking that the money could be better spent elsewhere x
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CommentAuthorxbeckix88
Nope not important at all!
We were lucky that my h2bs friend has a nice jag and has offered us it as a wedding present, if it wasnt for him then we would of just had a taxi with some ribbons on.
The quotes we were getting were silly prices and i refused to pay out £300 odd for 1 car for about 1 hrs use if that.
CommentAuthorAna40
I'm not too bothered about having one. Buy I'm not really a car person anyway. It depends what is important to you, not anyone else. Will you look back and regret not having one? If not I wouldn't spend too much. X
CommentAuthorNinaDawson
It was actually quite important to me! A: I don't drive and the venue is 10 miles away, and B: I ended up going to my prom in my mum's clapped out skoda a few years ago. So I decided that this time I was arriving in style :)
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CommentAuthorMrs T. 2 Be
We aren't having transport. Mainly because the majority of the getting ready beforehand will be done at the venue. My Dad is driving me to our venue.
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CommentAuthorShazk
i think it very personal thing
Personally it not a high priority for me (i plan to sta at venue night before any way) and they are so much money when i can just ask family/;friends to take me in their nice cars
As much as i love to look at wedding cars I jsut dont see point as having wedding & reeption in same place to pay that much for it to drop me off x
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CommentAuthorAmyP7
I didn't have one, wanted to spend my money elsewhere. But if you really want one you will have to factor it in some how x x
CommentAuthorDecember
I was totally with you on not at all wanting to waste £200 to £300 on a car!!
BUT!! I had a brainwave the other day! Went to a stupidly stupidly expensive wedding, H2B asked hotel reception to call a taxi to take us back to our (cheap) hotel. They sent a top of the range Mercedes.
So I g00gled posh taxi surrey. There are loads of companies that do mercs, posh BMWs, Audis... as high class taxis for businesses and things. They can do wedding cars for less than £50!! So that is what I am going to do. Look in your local area to see if there is something similar.