Hi Ladies This is my first time on here! I am so excited I am getting married next January! I have already found my dress and I have taken a bit of a gamble....its a large princess/ball gown shape tulle and organza (mori lee) and I am having quite a lot changed on it to make it absolutely perfect! I am going to see the dress maker tonight! Its a 'off the rail' dress and I am using it as a base and having things removed off it and lace appliqués added to it. I have put it on twice and both times I have felt like a princess in it and couldn't stop spinning around!
The dress is completely the opposite to what I thought would look good on me (at first I thought a figure hugging simple dress would look good- they looked awful on my hips!), I am 5"7 size 8/10 and my dress makes my waist look really small and I am reasonably tall so it doesn't swamp me. I am just worried people will think I have gone a bit OTT!? The skirt is pretty big!
Or should I not even bother worrying about that?!
Looking forward to hearing from you all xxx
CommentAuthorMrs S
who cares what anyone els thinks when it makes YOU feel like a princess?!? enjoy it hun :) x x
CommentAuthorRoxy
Hey hun and welcome :)
I am in the same boat, I've gone for a princess dress, Hollywood dreams!, and people keep saying things like awk well as long as you don't have a dress like my big fat gypsy wedding, and I know my dress is no where as big as those but it is still big! I've got to the point to where I don't really care anymore, I know it isn't everybodys taste but it is most certainly mine and feel like a princess in it and that's all that matters :)
Wear your dress, love it and be proud!
CommentAuthorMrs van der Lee
I haven't read your post fully because my instant reaction is 'its YOUR day. who gives a tosh what people think!?'
There's no such thing as OTT on your wedding day!!! xxx
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10-08-2013
CommentAuthorbrilly
to the site hun and congrats on ur engagement, i wouldnt worry what people think hun this is YOUR day not theres and every bride has the right to feel like a princess on there wedding day xxx
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i don't think there is such a thing as too big for a wedding!! lol
if it makes you feel like a princess, then it's the one!!!!!!
can't wait for you to post a photo for us!! :)
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CommentAuthorMrsLeanneStark
Welcome nic! which style is your dress? Just being nosey.. Lol, and i agree with the other brides, it is your day, your dress and all that matters is what you and your husband 2B think. I'm sure you look stunning in it. xx
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CommentAuthorClareS
welcome :) if it's the dress you want then don't worry about what anyone else thinks. I like the idea of you changing a few things - it'll will make it unique to you :) x
CommentAuthornic86
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Thanks for all the messages I will make sure I get a photo of me in it tonight! Its mori lee 1615 but I am having the top layer of tulle removed and replaced by a plain tulle as I am not so keen on the flowers and I wont be wearing the belt/sash.
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CommentAuthorBrideInTraining
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you wear what you like and feel comfy in dont worry about everyone else ;) xx
CommentAuthorJoanna
Just looked at your dress, it's stunning! I love it. You're not allowed links on the forum though babe, the mods will remove it. You can only put photos on the thread if you're a power user, so best to put a photo of it in your albums xxx
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CommentAuthorfwills25
Hiya hun and welcome
Dont worry about it hun its your dress so there is no such thing as OTT im sure it will look lovely
xxx
CommentAuthorsprucey83
Congrats and hi! I was worried about the same thing, mine's not big width ways but it's long at the back, and i did worry that it would be too big for a small venue as we've not got a venue yet, but then i decided i don't care! I don't think you can over dress on your wedding day when youre the bride! I haven't the monies for a large castle style wedding so i have to settle for a big dress instead ;)
xx
CommentAuthorhigginszajac
Hi, if you love it thats all that matters xx
CommentAuthorsprucey83
Oh and if you go to my wedding and look down the right hand side you can make a photo album and then we can see your pics on your profile
CommentAuthorMrsLeanneStark
nic86's dress
nic86 dress 1.jpg
nic86 dress 2.jpg
Its a beautiful dress hun and you will look gorgeous! xx
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CommentAuthorBarbieGabbie
The puffier the better! You will look like the perfect princess! And all eyes will be on you and your beautiful dress! :) x
CommentAuthorkrissy905
if its the dress you love and it makes you feel like a princess i say don't worry every one will think you look gorgeous and the dress is stunning xxx
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CommentAuthorlilkitty11
Its your wedding. Dress how you want to. No one else matters. X
CommentAuthor~feebee~
Oh wow, that's what I call a wedding dress hun, the shape is fantastic!
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CommentAuthorHa_x3
Its your wedding & everyone will be thinking 'awww' not 'OTT' lol
enjoy feeling like the princess hun xx
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CommentAuthorsuzky123
ive just had a look. Defo not too puffy.... if you look in my profile thats puffy esp when I put a 4 hooped skirt underneath... im the one panicking its too big. I think yours will look perfect so dont worry x
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CommentAuthorJoanna
Suzky, I've just had a nosey at your dress lol and it's absolutely gorgeous! I love it xx
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
Welcome and congratulations!
I love the dress, if it makes you feel like a princess and you love it who cares what everyone else thinks! It's your day and I'm sure everyone will think you look like a Princess anyway! It is really gorgeous! xxx
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CommentAuthorxxRosiexx
Your dress is gorgeous hun! As long as you love and feel comfortable and special in it that is all that matters. I'm sure everyone will just be happy and wowed by how amazing you look :)
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CommentAuthorXbox widow
Its your day and you can have what ever you want and its nothing to do with anyone else, after all your the one thats footing the bill not them x
CommentAuthorclare0481
It's gorgeous! C x
CommentAuthorStaceyP91
What a beautiful dress! My dress in Priscilla by Maggie.... i love big dresses... but i fel in love with mine & it is puffy so to say... but im am increasing the size of the hoop to make it bigger! xxx
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CommentAuthorcford20
"puffy" dresses are eye catching. All eyes will be on you for the day, it's a gorgeous dress :) Only you can decide what dress you want. How cares if a few people don't like it or it's "not their style". They aren't the ones wearing it.
CommentAuthorKirst
Your dress isn't too puffy it's stunning! It's your day hon you can wear what you want, plus it's sounds like it will really suit you...as for the tiny waist that is surely what we all want :) Am sure you will look fab x x
CommentAuthorMorgsysGirl(kempy)
Its stunning, personally I love the flowers on it too xx
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
who cares what other people think ....... as long as you love your dress
i love it!! def not too puffy. the bigger the better x
CommentAuthornic86
Thankyou everyone you are all so sweet-and your right every body has their own taste! Stacey your dress looks gorgeous! And Suzky your dress is amazing! I went to see it again last night and it still needs a bit more taking in off the sides but its looking fab! I will put some pics up in a bit for you all to have a look at! Its still a work in progress though!! My dress maker is fantastic if any body is looking for somebody around the staffordshire/Cheshire area. xxx
CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
wow!! that dress is amazing!! i love it the way it is, but if you don't like the top layer that's your choice.
definitely not too big!!!
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CommentAuthornic86
Ok the pics are up in my album! xxx
CommentAuthorMrsKisywisy
wow it's beautiful!! and you've got some body!! wow!!
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CommentAuthorshazzifox
O wow!!! What a beautiful dress!! Totally jealous of your waistline like!!! lol xx
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CommentAuthorrebeccalou21
Beautiful x
CommentAuthorEcoFreak
Big dresses are "not my style" (although that may change when I try them on lol!) but even I think your dress is gorgeous! Definitely not OTT and the skirt looks so soft & romantic :) Xx