Hi all i'm after your advice please I'm meant to be getting married in August and everything is booked but for some reason it doesn't feel right, i don't really know why. I love him but i keep looking at a house for just me and the boys and how to cancel what i've booked - surely thats not right :(
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
Oh hun I don't know what to say :( Could it just be cold feet, or does it feel like something more? I remember you cancelling it before because of problems with h2b and your son, do you think that is maybe still playing on your mind? xxx
Got together 14.02.2008
Got engaged 31.12.2010
Will become a Mrs on 30.08.2014 xxxxxx
CommentAuthorgeorgie
i think it is yes, we've all been ill this week and he's just not bothered to help at all i'm just confused i think. We seem to argue quite a bit over nothing plus i don't get on with his family so at the moment i want to scream and cry x
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Georgie, I feel that maybe there are more underlying problems here. I too remember you cancelling it before due to issues. Are these still happening?
Could you and you son go away for a short break on your own? It might help you think about what you want.
Our wedding day - 6 October 2012
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
I agree with Glitterfairy, maybe go away for a little bit just you and your son (or sons if you want to take the youngest too). I think I remember you saying that your parents don't live near by? Maybe go and see them for a long weekend and gage how you feel about being away from him, whether you miss him etc. If you do and all you can think about is not being with him, then you know you want to be with him, if not, then maybe you need to rethink the wedding? Sometimes all people need is a little break from each other to remind them why they are still together xxx
Got together 14.02.2008
Got engaged 31.12.2010
Will become a Mrs on 30.08.2014 xxxxxx
not as bad h2b is trying with my eldest, i just feel i want more than he has to offer. I've changed my job to home care so that i can do my NVQ's (or the new type training) so that i can do my nurse training and for this i work shifts but i'm having to arrange it all around the children as he says he has to work and its my choice to change careers so i have to sort it - um hello takes 2 to make a baby! I just feel like a single mu so think maybe i should be for a bit x
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Oh dear hun, it does sound like there could be something deeper.
Maybe you need a short break away to gather your thoughts, imagine what life would be like without him but remember, if you break it off you both may not get back together again, that thought may help you make up your mind.
HUGS!!! Hope you can work out what it is you want xxx
Married the love of my life on Saturday 11th May 2013 xxx
Had our dream perfect honeymoon in Hawaii!
CommentAuthorGlitterfairy
Georgi, does he resent your career change at all? I only say this due to when I was with my ex, I spoke about changing it, never did until he went, but I know if I stayed with him I would never have done it as I would feel he would resent it.
