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    • FernP61
      CommentAuthorFernP61
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    Well what started out as a great weekend has now turned into a right nightmare, firstly we were meant to go to a friends wedding fri but decided not to go as our daughter was unwell, as it was ou of the way we planned on staying with the in laws to be! We went up to take our son as he was promised he could stay there we went home on the phone then his mother 'what's happening with the suits' we told them that everyone would need a quick re-size as the suits were in, when we originally went in there we paid a £100 dep, we tried to agree on a time that would suit everyone! We said 10 therefore it would be quick that wasn't good enough so in the end we went down this afternoon thinking they went a bit earlier?? Phone call h2bs bro complaining for h2bs step fil he only went to skaters and threw a fit ( mil agreed to pay remaining balance) he threw a fit saying that he wasn't paying for 5 suits they were 5 for 4! And the £100 dep would cover the cost of my step dad's suit! We went in and they were really nice I'm embarrassed h2bs mum has been ringing and texting him wtf she can't just leave things alone, I only found out yest that one of the fgirls h2bs bros daughter has a diff dress she had great satisfaction of telling me saying the other one was too big?? When I said that the fgirl wands were x2 ivory rose and our daughter was pink she threw a fit! I come back from town and my dis then texts me asking about her bm dress? She knew she wasn't being one due to the cost of them and the fact she hasn't shown no interest plus expects me to but accessories and shoes pay for hair etc and leaves it until now 6 days before to have a go and say she disowning me! As you can expect I'm stressed now done thing else or someone else is going to winge :(
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    • StephHsoon2bBodkin
      CommentAuthorStephHsoon2bBodkin
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    OMG! not what you need 6 days before your wedding. I'd put my foot down. You have far to much to do! if she is disowning you then let her do it.. its your and your H2B's day. Noone elses. You have everything done. Go with your gut.. dont let them ruin the biggest day for the both of you..

    **HUGS**

    Good luck in the run up and i hope you have a fabulous day xxx

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    • miss_finch
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    What a horrible situation!!!! Honestly why are people so selfish????? Its your day, I agree with Steph, you don't need the stress!!! xx

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    • BeverleyW66
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    Sounds like a nightmare Hun, and just when you should be getting all giddy in the final days before your wedding.

    Tell them all how unfair they are being and if they don't like it tell them to do one!

    Hope your day goes well, looking forward to hearing all about it and seeing your pics xxx

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    • miss_finch
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    • angel830609
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    i'd sit them all down together and tell them how selfish they're being putting you through all this 6 days before your wedding, as if wedding prep isn't stressful enough!, put your foot down like the other's have said and get them to get their heads out of their @rses!, cheeky buggers! xx

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    • angel830609
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    *tell

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    • FernP61
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    Hi girls just a bit of an update James step dad who made the fuss has apologised apparently he didn't realise we had made the deposit? As if you would get 5 suits for £250 on hire?? And I haven't hears off my sis she's only 17 so just being a diva none of them will be spoiling our day xx
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    • NataleeM
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    wooooooserrrr! lol thats all i have to say, i am sure i will be doing that a lot lol,
    Hope everything goes perfect for your big day zxxxxxxxxx



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    • CharlieBe-Cool
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    I hope they manage to pull themselves together and behave on your day.

    Dont let.it ruin your excitement!

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    • FernP61
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    Thanks Charlie hopefully haven't heard from my sister but to be honest I don't really care if she turns up or not I only ever hear off her when she wants me to take her places! Everything's sorted out now with the in laws situation xx
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    • *The NewMrsMalin*
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    :( Just enjoy your day Fern; if she is going to 'disown' you then just let her be like that :(

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