i have just found out im 6 weeks pregnant with number 4 which is due 6th feb but having c section so prob earlier , im getting married on 2nd april is this too soon to be jumping around on the dancefloor etc and im worried my dress wont fit after hmm oops i posted twice i thought last one never worked how do i delete 1
CommentAuthorvintage lass
Congratulations on your news hun...how exciting!!!!!!!!!!
The choice is yours hun if you would rather wait or go ahead! Personally if this was me I would probably pros pone the wedding simple due to the fact that I would want to enjoy both planning my wedding and preparing for a new addition to the family...if you think you could cope reasonable well (some b2b do) then go for it!!! Youll get plenty of support from us ladies!!!!!!!
Then there is the financial aspects...would you be able to organize/prepared to both these occasions.... birth and wedding with such a close time between the two?
Is there a possibility that you could bring the wedding forward? xxx
CommentAuthorcuddlez80
there is at a push but i cant get to big or my dress wont fit n with my 3 girls i was hugeee by 25 weeks lol
CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
congrats!! i dont have children so couldnt comment on how you'll feel a couple of months afterwards but it would be pretty stressful, new baby and wedding :) x
CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
i no when i had lucas by emergence section it took me a good 2 months to get properly up and fit..so would prob recommned postponing cause they last thing you want on ur big day is to be sitting down in pain!!!!! even postpone it 6 months or so!!! and you dont really need stress of both pllanin a wedding and for a newborn
but completely up2 u xx good luck
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CommentAuthorButterflyDreamer
Congratulations on your exciting news hun :) Do what you feel is right hun. all the best xx
CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
congrats!!! is everything booked???? could you move it back a month even then you might be ok......
can I just ask have you had 3 sections already?? I have and I have been told not to have any more, we are gutted as we wanted another one
Cant wait for my Tiffany & co, wedding - July 16th 2011
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Hmmmm this is a tricky one! My last child i had a c section and had a few probs so couldnt walk without pain for about 8-9 weeks after. I think if i was you i would put it back maybe 6 months to year just so you can heal and enjoy your pregnancy then new baby without stressing about the wedding as well. And being your 4th its going to be ALOT of added pressure for you babe. Sorry it may not be what you wanted to hear but in the long run just think you'll have an extra adorable little flowergirl/pageboy walking down the isle :-) Plus youll have longer to save
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CommentAuthorKerrylou
CONGRATULATIONS!!!
I've only had one (but preggers now) and she was delivered naturally but I remember being so tired when she was 2 months. Squiggs is going to be 8 months when we get hitched so we're getting the worst of the planning done before he/she is born.
It's entirely up to you though, you know your limits and capabilities, I know from a friend though that c-sections can take a while to recover from and if you overdo it then you can get all sorts of complications - just be good to yourself! xxx
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CommentAuthorShellster90
Aww congratulations!! The ladies have said it all :) Hope you decide what's best for you xx
CommentAuthorKesha
congrats!!! thats fab news, Im sure whatever you decide will work best for you
CommentAuthorRelfy
Congratulations sweetie.... i think the best thing is to listen to your gut feeling.... what do you think is best, what does h2b think about it.... does your wedding insurance cover any lost cash due to the pregnancy? xx
CommentAuthorJay
congratulations huni! i had an emergency section with my second child and i was walking and well after 5 days, think it just depends on how your body copes. By 3 weeks i had totally recovered and was back to my normal shape, BUT i did have him at 28weeks x
CommentAuthorKaya
Will you be breast feeding? We've been trying for a baby and my mum was like what about breast feeding in your dress etc. eeeep
Now Mrs Cobb!!!!!! :-D
CommentAuthorKerrylou
Kaya - you can always express milk, and it freezes so if you spend 3 or 4 days beforehand expressing small amounts you'd have enough for the big day xxx
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"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorEriksfjord
Congratulations on your news. I am sure you will be able to make the decision that is right for you both! xx
CommentAuthorhayleypooh
congratulations hun, u do only get married once and know how good we all want to look then maybe posponing it for a couple of months is the answer! i take u have had c section with ur last if ur saying u will properly have one this time too! i am lucky and was up and about after a few days but u cant always tell after more than one! i am sure it will all be ok either way x fingers crossed for a healthy 9 months hun
CommentAuthorcalamity333
Congratulations, It depends on how much you have already paid for and how much you can get back if you did postpone. If it was me I think I would postpone a little bit if I could... but dont leave it too long!! :-)
CommentAuthorcuddlez80
iv only paid for dress so far so i think il put it back a couple months just to be safe i gotta be able to do the time warp lol thankyou evryone for ur kind wishes
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