My older brother whom is also an usher has just informed us that he will come to the church and do his bit as he worded it but can't come to the recption as he has a friends wedding reception to go to. . . feel slightly let down by this. . .
Can't wait to become Mrs Hardwicke. . .
CommentAuthorGazza 122
ahhhhh Dee, that sucks babe :( i dont blame you for feeling let down, i would be too) xxxx
CommentAuthorJilly17
Oh dear, sorry but that is not right. He has obviously already committed to coming to your wedding and I am sorry but his sisters wedding takes priority over a friends. Why cant he just go to his mates night do? I would be very upset by it tbh! Bless you x
CommentAuthorEcoFreak
Aww that's not on - he's your brother! I'd be really miffed if my bother went to a friends reception rather than mine... Unless maybe if he was Best Man at that one, but if mine was booked first I'd be cross xx
CommentAuthorprincessnat1977
This would really upset me, I think you should talk to him hun, as the other girls have said surely he can just got to his "friends" for the evening bit xx
aw hun thats awful i would be tlking to him aswell i would be fuming and upset that he has to leave let us know if you talk to him big hugs xx
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CommentAuthorkimmy
That's a bit rude, I don't blame you for feeling let down :(
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
dee.... i wud tell him wats mor eimportant his sister or his friend! and persoanlly i wud sack him as an usher if he picks his friend
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CommentAuthorfelicity.h
With one month to go until yours. I'd of gotten very angry withhom. My sister had a few to go to on the same day as ours but they've all broken up now and I was okay if theyleft in the evening but to go straight after the church that's plain rude. I hope he's paying for his usher suit, if not I'd make him. It's tough with family though but he needs to be made aware how disrespectful he's being
CommentAuthorStave
WOW! Shocking. I was due to be MOH on the same day as SIL2b's wedding. I had know about my friends for well over a year, SIL2B's since the last 5 months. Its so hard when in the middle.
I cant say that I agree with him, but as it is your brother, I would expect that it is something that a man would do, if that makes sense. Try not to be too upset x
CommentAuthorKinkyemo
HE should come to the reception at least for a while and then maybe show his face at the other wedding if he feels he has to but sister should come before friend! OOh Id slap my family if it was them!!
The only family member of mine that isnt staying late is my little sis but she will have a 6 month old with her so I dont mind!
CommentAuthorselina
my brother is usher for my wedding and he has another wedding to go to the same day but he his coming to the church and the reception after and going to his friends wedding on the evening. i understand that he wants to be there for both as he has been friends him since school over 12 years now. but i am gutted that hes not going to be there the whole time but got to see it from his point of view. but your brother sounds disrespectful tell him how it makes you feel and how upset you are
CommentAuthordee
He's leaving straight fom church as the other wedding is at 4, ours will be finished about 1 and it's a 2 hour drive. I'm a bit peeved but have decided not to let it get to me too much. I'm sure that on the day i won't even notice i'll be so wrapped up in my gorgeous hubby. Xxx
Can't wait to become Mrs Hardwicke. . .
CommentAuthorprincessnat1977
I think I would stop him from being an Usher hun, I understand that he may want to be at his friends too but I would be really upset by this xx
CommentAuthorUnknown
that is horrible...ask him who is more important!
if that was my brother who is also an usher i would tell him not to bother coming at all xx
